Yes.. it’s a big big NO……but to what???
You must be wondering as to why am i saying nooo and to whom…???
This NOOOOO is for all those people who have hurt your self respect or have been trying to do so…
There is one of my batchmate. A sweet girl who was in a relationship with a boy in our college. They both loved each other. They used to go out on movie dates and dinner dates. They were ready to get married after a relationship of 3 years.
But one evening, a very sad incident took place where the boy slapped my batchmate (his girlfriend) publically and shouted at her using slang languages. She got furious and decided to not talk to her boyfriend. Merely after 3 days, she patched up with him. Everything was going well yet again he slapped her. She finally decided to call off her relationship……
Now as you have read this, I would like to ask you some questions:
- Does anybody has the right to hit his /her bf/gf in a relationship??
- Is love more important than your self respect??
- Does anybody has the right to hurt your self respect????
For me,the answer to all the questions above is NO.
Just because you are in a relationship, he or she doesn’t have any right to hit or abuse his or her partner. Be it the mistake of either of you but being abusive or hitting is not at all an option.
If you don’t stop at first, you are actually giving him or her the liberty to slam you again which is definitely wrong. Therefore, say NO the first time it happens. Not only bf/gf relationship, be it any relationship- friendship or any relationship….never ever hurt anybody’s self respect because it can really change somebody’s life……
Always keep your self respect on top because:
THE WAY YOU TREAT YOURSELF SETS THE STANDARD FOR OTHERS ON HOW YOU DEMAND TO BE TREATED. DON’T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING OTHER THAN RESPECT…
Takecare people and do give it a thought on this…..